Our individual beliefs and societal are an important role in shaping our understanding of individuals affected by family violence (FV) and intimate partner violence (IPV). Our interactions are deeply influenced by our unique past experiences, particularly how abuse and trauma may transfer thoughts, behavioral patterns, and feelings from childhood into our adult relationships. For example, a person who grows up in an environment where the message is "Children are to be seen and not heard" may struggle to develop a strong sense of self, self-respect, and self-esteem. Being dismissed, invalidated, or abused throughout childhood can lead to difficulties in voicing feelings and needs in adulthood, potentially resulting in relationships with adults under similar patterns of abuse or neglect.
Additionally, societal norms, including those surrounding gender roles and internalized masculine norms (e.g., "man up!" or "men don't show their emotions"), can further complicate our understanding of FV and IPV. These norms often reinforce harmful behaviors and attitudes such as strict gender based roles leading to victims of any gender or background and especially black, indigenous, and other people of color (BIPOC) communities to accept or normalize abusive dynamics within individuals and families of IPV FV (McKinley, C., 2021, November 16).
It's important that evidence-based research and ongoing education influence our legal sanctions through a "child-centered" and "safety-first" approach (AIFStv., 2022, June 29). Treatment should be provided from a trauma-informed, culturally sensitive lens. Both individual experiences and macro cultural contexts significantly impact how we perceive and respond to those affected by family and intimate partner violence. While we cannot change cultural attitudes entirely, we can offer prevention strategies and resources to communities impacted by IPV/FV. It is both important and encouraging that there are programs effective for individuals affected by IPV/FV and that an entire care team; such as shelters, hospitals, courts, law enforcement, advocates, and medical professionals collaborates to support individuals and families impacted by IPV/FV (Pabon, A., 2024).